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Consulting
(Consulting services provided for organizations and their members)
At Share the Flame LLC™, we specialize in trauma-informed systems transformation rooted in a social justice framework. Our work is grounded in the abolitionist belief that meaningful change requires us to dismantle and replace harmful systems—not merely reform them.
We partner with nonprofit (including faith-based), corporate, government, and academic organizations to identify and address the barriers that prevent deep, effective, and lasting systems change.
Through a bold and compassionate approach to social justice trauma work, we spark insight, ignite collective growth, and cultivate shared vision. Our goal is to transform resistance into readiness—helping teams and institutions evolve toward trauma-informed, equity-rooted cultures of care.
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We invite organizations ready to move from intention to action to explore how we can co-create bold, equity-centered transformation together.
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 Coaching
(Coaching services for individuals, groups, and couples)
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Trauma-informed coaching through a social justice lens.
Supporting individuals and groups in healing, growth, and liberation at the intersections of identity, trauma, and systemic harm.
đź“Ś Scroll to the bottom of the Services page to review our Coaching Standards.
What We Address
Personalized coaching to support healing in areas such as:
Anxiety, stress, grief, infidelityÂ
Racial identity & cultural trauma
Self-worth, relationships, and betrayal trauma
Post-traumatic growth & emotional resilience
Life transitions, goals, and leadership
We guide clients in radical self, collective, and communal care—practices that foster love, boundaries, and restoration.
Coaching Options
🌀 Developmental Life Coaching
Explore how trauma shapes choices, relationships, and identity—and create meaningful, embodied shifts.
🤝 Dismantle to Heal™ Collective
Small group coaching (4–6 people) to dismantle oppression and grow in community. (More info on the Shop page.)
đź•Š Betrayal Trauma Coaching
For relational, institutional, or faith-based betrayal. Explore patterns and reclaim safety and truth.
✊🏾 Racial & Cultural Trauma Coaching
For Black, Brown, and Indigenous clients: process racialized trauma, minoritization, and cultural betrayal.
For systemically dominant clients: unlearn white body supremacy and engage in repair.
đź’” Sexual Betrayal Trauma Coaching
Specialized support for partners recovering from infidelity and sexual betrayal. Informed by APSATS, ERCEM, MPTM, and MBAT-RC methods.
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Speaking
(Services for organizational retreats and events)
Speaking Services Include:
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Motivational keynotes & TED-style talks
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Interactive workshops & trainings
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Retreat & event facilitation
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Panel speaking & storytelling
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Podcast interviews
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Custom equity & healing sessions
Retreat Options for Organizational ChangeÂ
Through customized facilitation, Dr. Debi helps organizations:
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Uncover and disrupt internal systems of harm
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Build trauma-informed, equity-rooted cultures
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Move from performative change to real transformation
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Trauma-Informed Coaching Rooted in Social Justice
Dr. Debi Jenkins is a credentialed member of the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and a pioneer in social justice trauma coaching. As the ICF highlights, “seven out of ten people worldwide are struggling or suffering,” and while coaching is not a substitute for clinical therapy, research continues to show how trauma-informed coaching can support those impacted by trauma.
Dr. Debi bridges coaching, consulting, and facilitation through an integrative, trauma-informed, trauma-responsive, and somatic framework—grounded in justice and designed to reach the emotional core of trauma: the limbic system, responsible for our fight, flight, and freeze responses.
Her approach weaves together culturally responsive coaching methods such as:
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Internal Family Systems (IFS)
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Interpersonal & Narrative Approaches
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Mindfulness-Based Coaching (MBAT-RC)
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Person-Centered & Positive Psychology
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Somatic Experiencing (Levine)
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Brainspotting (Grand)
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Cultural Somatic Abolitionism (Menakem, 2017)
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Integrative and collective care models
Through this multidimensional lens, Dr. Debi supports individuals and organizations in moving beyond survival toward healing, resilience, and systemic change.
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Important Notice: Coaching Is Not Clinical Therapy
At Share the Flame LLC™, we offer trauma-informed coaching, consulting, and speaking—not clinical or medical treatment.
We can honor your past yet, our primary focus is on your present experiences and future goals, helping you build resilience, healing, and growth through a social justice trauma-responsive lens. While our work may feel therapeutic, it is not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
If you are experiencing trauma-related symptoms that require a diagnosis or clinical intervention, we encourage you to seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist.
🔍 We do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions.